Thursday, May 21, 2015

Little Miss & Mister Little on the Big Little Podcast

This Friday, Little Miss Little (Jesbian) and Little Mister Little (Rizzo) will be appearing on the Big Little Podcast for their show on San Francisco age players!

The show will be broadcast at 9:30 pm Eastern Time if you would like to listen live. For further details about the show, visit their FetLife Group post.

To submit your questions in advance, email hosts@biglittlepodcast.com or call 678-421-4256.


Sunday, May 17, 2015

Little Miss Little Title Pin Release Tea Party

Date & Time: Sunday, May 24, 2015 ·12:00 PM – 3:00 PM
Location: Wicked Grounds Kink Cafe & Boutique San Francisco, CA
Cost: $30 General, $40 VIP
Dress Code: Tea Party Best



We are blessed in San Francisco to have a diversity of Leather culture, and the International Little Miss & Mister Little contest is just one of many titles that SF is proud to host. Many communities don't have an active place for Littles to truly be themselves, even in the kink community.

Here's where you come in! Little Miss Little is gathering funds to help get out on the road to do Littles education in other communities. To support this, she is releasing a Little Miss Little title pin, and doing other fundraising to help Littles in other states build active communities.

Come join us for an elegant Littles Tea to celebrate and help Jesbian with this work. Everyone who attends will receive a pot of tea, tea sandwiches and pastries, and a limited edition Little Miss Little Title Pin. The first 8 to sign up for the VIP level will also receive a Naught-T Set, courtesy of Wicked Grounds. If you are able to be more generous, there will be opportunities to contribute more at the event. Individual pins will also be on sale for those who need to pick up an extra one or two for friends and family!

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Monday, May 11, 2015

International Little Ms. Little Going to OMsL

Titleholder Jesbian will be going to Oklahoma to do outreach to the local Littles community at the Oklahoma Ms. Leather Contest, taking place June 12th to 14th! She's currently raising funds to cover her travel and other fees. It's coming up pretty quickly, so she does need funds ASAP! If you're able to help her out, you can contact her on her FetLife profile and offer assistance.

"I will be doing Education and Advocacy outreach in Oklahoma! Please support me in helping to educate and advocate for leather Little visibility. Donate to my PayPal, heartcandy4u@gmail.com, as a Family or Friend. $10 will get you my title year pin that will be coming out at the end of May! Please put your name and address in the message or PM me on Facebook."

All the Single Littles

Date and Time: Thursday, June 11, 2015 · 8:00 PM –10:00 PM Doors at 7:30
Location: SF Citadel at 181 Eddy St.
Cost: $20 at the door, $15 in advance

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In the world and online we are bombarded with pictures and stories of Littles with their partners. There is a particular importance placed on Littles to have a Big. But what about those who are currently un-partnered? How do they figure out how to feel like an age player without a partner? In this class we will discuss briefly what age play is and how to find your Little. Then we'll get into how to be comfortable and maintain and nurture that Little headspace while un-partnered. We will also discuss the transition from being un-partnered to partnered, and how to maintain your age play headspace while dating someone who is not a Big.

Age players of all genders and sexual orientations are welcome! Partnered Littles are welcome as well!

 We will have a couple of copies of the Age Play and Diaper Fetish Handbook by Penny Barber for sale. All money made by book sales and half the price of admission to the class goes to directly to fund the International Little Miss Mister Little contest!

About the presenter: Rizzo is a Little trans queer leather boy and titleholder of International Little Mister Little 2014. Since being found by Leather, he has found his passion in service, building up and bridging together communities, and spreading the good cheer of Littles one coloring page at a time! By day he is director of Society of Janus Helping Hands and contributor to Growing Pains, SoJ’s bi-monthly newsletter. By night he is a volunteer at numerous dungeons and a bottom who plays for bruises and blood. Rizzo is based in San Francisco, where he is boy and little monster to his Mommy.

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Int'l Little Mister Little at IMsL

The bruises are fading and the cuts are closing up, but the memories of my first full International Ms. Leather (IMsL) weekend will remain with me forever! Being around so many Leather people at one time, and having them be so welcoming was truly a blessing, and I still cannot believe that it was real life! I was such a fanboy the whole weekend!


My internal screaming started when we first arrived. While waiting for the doors for Seduction to open, Mommy and I were looking around to find some friends when I saw Patty, IMsL 2014 getting her boots done by Dara, International Ms. Boot Black (IMsBB) 2014! While a couple of people walked by and snapped pictures there wasn’t a big crowd around them so it was nice and quiet. It felt like the Leather equivalent of watching a church be filled with incense.


Seduction was hot, hot, HOT! It was fun to watch people I know showcase their stuff, and be made to blush and shift in my seat by those I hadn’t seen before. My hands hurt from clapping and my lungs hurt from laughing by the end of it. There was even a surprise appearance from Left Shark, which had me crying by the time the performance was done. It was awesome! We then attended Queer Sphere’s Afterglow Lounge, which had hot dancers and hot attendees, but we only stayed for a while because we had an early start the next day.


Friday was the first full day and I couldn’t wait to get going! Since our hotel reservation started Friday, we got up early, packed the car and headed off! While Mommy went to negotiate with her demo bottom for her fearplay class, I got to unpack the car and head up to our room. I love a challenge, and it was definitely a fun challenge to figure out how to fit all four of our suitcases plus numerous bags onto one of the trolleys and get it all up to our room in one trip. The hardest part was not the bags, though. IMsL, Mommy says, is Leather Christmas, so naturally Leather Santa brought me a gift! However, I was not supposed to open it until Mommy was done with her negotiation lunch, so I had to carry the wrapped present up to our room and stare at it until she was finished.


Remember when I watched Patty and Dara on Thursday? Well, being that I pretty much live on the internet and social media, I of course tweeted about it. While I was in the elevator taking the trolley back to the hotel lobby, someone in sunglasses got into the elevator with me. They did a double-take and asked if I was the one who had tweeted about Patty and Dara yesterday. When I said I was, they reached out their hand, smiled and said, “Hello, I’m Patty.”


I. Almost. Died.


I managed to shake her hand in my dazed state while she thanked me for my kind words. I thanked her for all she had done in her title year, and we both got out and went our separate ways. I was stunned that she recognized me at all, and that she had stopped to say something to me about it. That is just one of the many reasons I admire her and all the work she has done not only during her title year, but even before that. Needless to say I was grinning the rest of the afternoon.


My Leather Christmas present just helped to broaden my grin! Leather Santa apparently heard me whining that Target had been sold out of the Hulkbuster toy from The Avengers for months now, because he got me my very own!


Later on, Mommy made a date with one of our friends to help string me up with needles and thread. I love needles, so taking 80 was a fun journey, but then Mommy followed up with stringing thread around the needles and looping them over a sex swing skeleton so my arms and legs were all being held up slightly by needles and thread. She and our friend started to pluck and pull the strings which quickly brought me to a very happy headspace. Mommy finished by twisting the threads together and making us all friendship bracelets! She was sad that we had missed the opening ceremony, but seeing the bracelets we all three had made from three hours of hard work, I wasn’t sad at all. It was the perfect end to a very good first day at IMsL.


Saturday was All of the Things day. Mommy had a class first thing in the morning, so she had me dress in my Boy Scout uniform while I served her. It was awesome to see everything come together smoothly thanks to the awesome IMsL volunteers, and as usual her fearplay class was full of laughter and screaming. Afterwards, we had a quick costume change for the Mommy Panel by Felice Shays, where my Mommy sat and talked about her own experiences, took questions and gave advice alongside a Mumma and Mommy. I was a little disappointed to hear the Mumma say that she did not “do Littles” because “they are all loud, rambunctious, bratty, and a handful,” but by the awkward silence that filled the room right after she made that statement, I do believe she was proved wrong by all the Littles in that room. Other than that, the panel was excellent. It was very interesting to see how other Mommies handled their partners, how they defined Mommy, and how they came to terms with how they identified. I hope that the panel comes back next year. That room was packed with people who were so curious about a type of play that is not often represented, and I hope they all left with more knowledge, and hungry for even more.


After a bite to eat and a quick nap, it was contest time! Mommy and I got all fancied up and headed down to the ballroom. My breath was taken away by seeing everyone in their Leathers. We were surrounded by so many titleholders older and newer, and so many prominent people in the worldwide community. I saw people I had only ever read about, like Sandy “Mama” Reinhardt, and Daddy Spencer (aka Mr. IMsL)! I met the woman who designed our IMML patches and we traded craft secrets! We also saw our friends, like Siouxsie Q who was seated alongside Midori at the judges table, Ms. SF Sober Leather, and so many more! It was like a gathering of Leather royalty and I couldn’t believe I was sitting among them!


The contest began and from the moment the first Bond song played I was enthralled. [James Bond was the theme of the contest this year.] All of the contestants were amazing in their own right, and I didn’t know about the rest of the ballroom but I had no idea who was going to win! They were all so talented! Of course my heart was captured by Sarge’s fantasy, which was a Disney Princess gangbang in a Disneyland bathroom. I was also really happy about Luca’s fantasy, which also took place in a bathroom but was a bit more serious. It started with Luca, a transwoman, going into the bathroom and someone complaining because Luca is trans. It was lighthearted, and ended with a Canadian Mountie being whipped, but the message rang true, and I was thoroughly impressed. There was also a fantasy of Little Red Riding Hood where the wolf tries to take advantage of Little Red, but Little Red turns the tide and ends up topping the wolf! It was an awesome contest full of amazing and wonderful skits. This little boy was very much in his happy place!


My favorite part, though, had to be the stepping down speech that Dara gave. S/he started out thanking everyone, but then segwayed into how s/he had been told that the IMsBB was not an equal title to the IMsL, and was the lower title. Along with some shouts of, “Fuck that!” and, “No!”, what Dara stated that is simply not true. When s/he said that all Ms. and Mr. titles are service titles, I don’t believe I had ever clapped harder in my life. S/he spoke directly to my service heart, my Leather boy heart, at that moment, and I was taken to my own type of church. I was proud to be part of a community whose leaders take a stand and tell a room full of Leatherfolk that no, service is not taken without fair exchange. Self-care, self-confidence, and the fulfillment of desires and needs must be taken into account as well. S/he told us to recognize that we all bring something to the table in our own ways, and called for us to all “see each other.”


I don’t believe I have ever felt prouder than I did in that moment to be part of this community where we look out for each other. Where we try our best for each other. Where we serve each other in our own unique ways. Where we take these titles and do something with the platforms we have been given. Where we hear the call to action and heed it. It was amazing to be in the presence of so many who felt the same.

The rest of the weekend was full of play, service, and connections. I met with so many people who had never heard of the contest or titles and were so excited to hear that they existed! Titleholders approached me and asked how they could get involved! It was super awesome, and I have a feeling that we’re going to have a lot of competitors this year. I can’t wait to see what they all bring to the table!

Monday, April 20, 2015

Neverland Party Hosted by Little Mr. Little!

Date and Time Saturday, May 16, 2015; 1:00 PM to 6:00 PM
Location SF Citadel 181 Eddy Street, San Francisco, CA 94102
Cost $10 at the door, free for one hour of volunteering!
Dress Code Lost Boy, fairie, mermaid, Wendy-lady, pirate, or whatever makes you comfy!


Calling all lost boys, fairies, mermaids, Wendy-ladies, and yes, even pirates! Come join us at the SF Citadel for a special afternoon queer Neverland party! You'll need pixie dust to get in, but at $10 this pixie dust is a steal! 

Then get dressed as a fairie, mermaid, pirate, lost boy or whatever you want to be and come never grow up at San Francisco's longest running dungeon space! Come eat dirt cake and bugs! Hunt some lost boys, or look for Hook's treasure! Sing in mermaid lagoon or flit around Pixie Hollow! Come hear a story or color in our Littles corner! 

And don't forget out 8,000 square foot playspace where you can play your way. We'll also be having a raffle of some neat items to benefit the International Little Miss Mister Little Contest. If you are interested in donating an item, please contact SeaMonsterPrince

This is a queer-centric event, but all sexualities who think happy thoughts are welcome to come fly with us! 

Volunteer opportunities are available for free entry. Check for available shifts. If you plan on attending the Spring Fling party later Saturday night, mention it and you'll get $5 off for attending both parties! 

Brief note about appropriation: While we recognize the original work by J.M Barrie contained stereotypical misrepresentations of indigenous peoples, we ask you please refrain from coming to Neverland dressed as a Native stereotype. Thank you!

RSVP on FetLife!

Thursday, April 16, 2015

International Ms. Leather Convention 2015

Sam Solo, the 2012 Little Mister Little for San Francisco was kind enough to do a write up for his experience at this year's International Ms. Leather Convention in San Jose.

Five days ago I saw a Disney princess gangbang live on stage in the ballroom of a San Jose Hilton. It was everything I dreamed it could be. The gangbangers were cosplay convention level Jasmine, Belle, Cinderella, and Ariel and the gangbangee was the International Miss Leather 2015, aka Sarge. This epic Disney scene (complete with giant foam hitachi!) was for the fantasy section of  Sarge’s run for the title of International Ms. Leather (IMsL). Leather title hopefuls have to perform a skit or display a talent on stage, just like any other pageant, and at IMsL that means presenting a sexual fantasy for an audience of over six-hundred people.  





Sarge’s age play outing turned Disney-fied fuck fest was far and away the best skit at the competition, at least in the mind of this particular adult little boy. It may have been the grandest display of Little pride and inclusion at this year’s competition but it definitely was not the only example. On Saturday I got to attend a panel all about Mommy/Little roleplay, led by Felice Shays with panel members from our local age play community, including the Mommy of Rizzo, the current International Mister Little. Of course my Mommy (aka the best Mommy) made me write her phone number on my boy parts before she let me loose among all those Mommies unattended. The panel had some interesting points but was mostly a mini M/L pride rally. There must have been at least thirty people there for the panel and they all were fired up to be included on the IMsL program. 



There was also class about Littles as service submissives, taught by International Miss Little  that I was not able to attend. I was also really bummed that I forgot my sash from the year I won Little Mister Little San Francisco, especially when I saw that my date, Siouxsie Q, had brought hers. (We won the same year.) I thought Siouxsie being asked to judge the competition was the biggest sign of Littles inclusion, even if it was partly due to her sex workers’ rights advocacy.   

Between the Mommy panel, the Disney orgy, and Siouxsie presiding over the judges table in a tutu and frilly anklets, I was really feeling the age play pride. I decided to spend the last day of the conference bopping around the hotel in my American Girl Doll pajamas. Nina Hartley saw me in the lobby and called me a “cutie patootie,” which was icing on the cupcake of an amazing IMsL conference. If my weekend experience is any indication of the direction of the BDSM community, it looks like we Littles may finally be getting our due!

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Another Age Player Titleholder!

The 2015 Hunky Jesus title, which is awarded each Easter by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, was awarded to "Baby Jesus," who looks absolutely precious in his diaper and crown of thorns, even if he is a little messy with that bottle. Akshay Sawhney's photographed all of this years contestants--as well as 2014's.